Anthony Robbins is often heard stating “if you want a better result, ask a better question”.
Our lives are driven by questions. Driven is the important word there. If we don’t ask questions, how can we get what we want?
Often we hear ourselves asking “what do I want” but this is often met with a shrug and a “I dunno”.
So let us look at this another way because “what do I want?” is too vague and it’s also looking for one thing. I want lots of things, so the question instantly causes confusion.
How about asking what “would I like”? It has a much more playful feeling, and isn’t that the feeling you want out of life.
What would happen if you made a huge list of all the things you’d like in your life.
- A cool house / apartment
- A sweet car (Range Rover for me please)
- A cool relationship.
- Great friends.
- So on and so on.
Now that you have a huge list, the bigger the better, (because we are here to live life to the fullest). Let’s ask another question… what do i want first? Then another question… what do i want to do to make that happen? And the most important question what do I have to improve, in me, to make that happen?
As you can see by improving the question you get a better result.
How are you going to have more fun today?
What do you want more? To stay in bed another hour or to have an epic life.
I look forward to reading your questions.